This is like one of my favs of all time.... K-Ci and Jojo know what's up, even years later. The basis of this song (if you've lived under a rock or were born after 1992) is a dude (well I guess two dudes, since they are singing a duet. With magical silky man voices. That … Continue reading Lately
Category: Love
I Carry Your Heart
Sometimes poems speak better than my own words. i carry your heart with me - E.E. Cummings i carry your heart with me (i carry it in my heart) i am never without it (anywhere i go you go, my dear; and whatever is done by only me is your doing, my darling) i … Continue reading I Carry Your Heart
Yank It Out
My darling male basenji, Red, is just the sweetest darn boy alive. I know many strangers, including strangers with dogs, may not always agree with me. But of my two dogs, he is the genuinely lovable one. Last week, I took both the furballs to see the vet for their annual visit. Halo and Red … Continue reading Yank It Out
Changing
If you're a girl.... oh you just love changes. You just want to incorporate change into your life. Especially your love life. All. The. Time. When we go through a break up... we think... How could I have done this differently? What could I have changed? What can I change to make a guy like … Continue reading Changing
A Grown Up Conversation
I was thinking about breakups recently. About the breakups I've had in my thirties versus the breakups I've had in my twenties. I think the one blaring difference? Maturity. My maturity. And my choices. I dated people in my twenties that I gave my life up to. That I put on a pedestal, who left … Continue reading A Grown Up Conversation
Boundaries vs. Walls
There once was a girl named Me. Seriously, it was me. I believed in magical things. Like Santa and upside down cake. I met a very very handsome brain surgeon. He looked like Oscar de la Hoya, but he was not Hispanic, he was a white dude. But equally as sexy and fit. And he … Continue reading Boundaries vs. Walls
Minus One for the Singles
Sorry I didn't blog yesterday. I've been sick. Blech. I've been in bed for about three days now. No bueno. Being sick is never fun for anyone. Being sick as a single person? Well, it just sucks. I remember there being a Sex and the City episode on this (surprise, surprise, they always think of … Continue reading Minus One for the Singles
“I Don’t Want to See You Get Hurt.”
Ah, my favorite 'friend' line. If you've uttered these words from your lips- pay attention, this post is for you. I have a declaration to make. I'M OKAY GETTING HURT. Did y'all hear me? I'm okay getting hurt. I think hurt, disappointment, failure... words that are generally perceived as negative- are all part of life's … Continue reading “I Don’t Want to See You Get Hurt.”
You Get What You Give
I believe Karma is the word. Although I think Karma is a bit overused these days. People just love saying, (insert nasaly voice) "Karma is a b&*ch". Well, if you are saying that- isn't that negative? Which means that it'll come back around to get you too? Or, "I did something good, so I have … Continue reading You Get What You Give
Great Expectations
I'm going to get all English lit up in here. Oh, yes, I titled this post after David Copperfield's famous novel; but don't think I'm actually going to be discussing the life of Pip right now. No, it was another Englishman that led me to this topic today- Billy Speares: Ah, expectations. The death of … Continue reading Great Expectations









