If she was just 'a pet'... I wouldn't have cared if my new place had a yard with a sunny spot or not. Or stairs or not. Or a fence or not. I wouldn't have chosen a neutral couch fabric to disguise her fur. I wouldn't have vacations that were under 10 days, and I … Continue reading “She’s Just a Pet”
Category: Life
The Social Experiment
As you may have noticed, it has been quite awhile since I last posted. This was by design. In part of my journey of becoming the woman I am to be... I was asked to abstain from social media for seven days. For me, that would mean no Instagram, no Facebook, and (dun dun dun)... … Continue reading The Social Experiment
Diversify Your Post-folio
When I was a kid, I used to have to walk seven miles, uphill, in the snow to school. Both ways! Naw, I didn't. But what I did do was write and send letters. I also called people on my see-through land line phone. If anyone made a big - and I mean *big* announcement- … Continue reading Diversify Your Post-folio
Your Gift
What is your gift? Or what are your gifts? No, I am not the royal family asking you to bestow a gift upon the feet of baby Prince George of England- but I am asking, what is your unique gift that you embody and can give to the world? For some of us out there, … Continue reading Your Gift
Shui What?
So I want to apologize if many of my posts in the near-ish past have been weightier than usual. I'm going through some transformative times, and obviously, you all are along for the ride. I'm bringing this up because I didn't realize the gravity of my writing until I heard a couple of pieces of … Continue reading Shui What?
Hey Jealousy
I have written about jealousy before. The context of my previous post came from a place of immaturity... of when I was younger and wanted to be perfect in every way. That I would get jealous by all things perfect. Hair, boobs, what have you. And I learned with age (and over time), there was … Continue reading Hey Jealousy
In My Head
I live in my head. Or so I've been told. I didn't realize it, until I realized it. See, there's a problem with living in your head. It's kind of a lonely place... because you're the only one in there. The last week or so, I've been trying -like really focusing- on paying attention to … Continue reading In My Head
I’m Still Here
Last post, I wrote about everything being OK no matter the outcome. That if the 'house' or the 'guy' or the 'job' or whatever wasn't something meant for me... it wouldn't be. I heard back on that place- that place that every one of my Disney hopes, wishes and dreams wanted as my future home... … Continue reading I’m Still Here
It (He) Finds You
The house. The husband. Ok, so two big "H" words in a lady's life. House and Hubs. I'm making a little progress on the husband front... i.e. I'm going to a life coach who is helping me figure my shi@ out so I can be the best woman I can be... because here is how … Continue reading It (He) Finds You
I am a Woman
Wow. That was really hard for me to say. I.Am.A.Woman. I mean, I have all the lady parts, why wouldn't I be able to say that? It all started a few weeks ago. I told my friend D about my life-changing, heart opening experience in Italy. I told him I had been to a therapist, … Continue reading I am a Woman








