Yes, watch what they do, not what they say. My dad used to tell me this in reference to boys. I didn't believe him at first.... so I ignored it pretty much for the majority of my dating-eligible life. You see, my witty brain accepted words (especially loving and complimentary ones) as tangible things... meaning, … Continue reading Watch What They Do, Not What They Say
Category: Friends
Responsiveness
I didn't realize how amazing being responsive was... until people were actually responsive. I think so rarely do people respond immediately that we're a bit shocked when they do. This made me realize... if you want to make an impact in the world- in your relationships, in your community, in the workplace... it really can … Continue reading Responsiveness
Friends
This weekend was very friend-centric for me. I had kick ball with some friends Friday night. My best friend from high school was in town this weekend. I went to yoga and brunch with one of my close neighbor friends, and I went to dinner with some of my college and book club friends. Topics … Continue reading Friends
They’re Just Words
Words. Positive? Negative? Depends. Does one word matter? It could... Words matter. What you say, when you say it, how you say it. Why you say it. Who you say it to. Which words you choose. It all matters. They can be informative, instructional, funny, sad, upsetting, brash.... the end result of a word or words … Continue reading They’re Just Words
Oh the People You Meet
"Go out into the world today and love the people you meet. Let your presence light new light in the hearts of people." -- MOTHER TERESA I know this blog has been more on the "Love" side of Life, Love and Yoga this week. A little relationship heavy - whether friendship or love interests. But … Continue reading Oh the People You Meet
When Friends React
I mentioned in previous posts... I'm rebelling a little. Not my norm, by any means. And I'm actually enjoying myself in this little rebellion. What I didn't anticipate, is the effect it would have on my friendships (even though my rebelliousness has no direct impact on them). One of my choices, as of late, has … Continue reading When Friends React
G.R.O.W.
My best friend from high school, whom I adore, and think the world of... is about to change her life. Dukes and I became friends late in adolescent life... seniors in high school. We bonded over soccer and the Beastie Boys and since then, she truly has witnessed my human evolution. We don't talk every … Continue reading G.R.O.W.
Self-Realizations 4: I’m a Judge Judy
I am probably one of the more judgmental people on this planet. I admit it. I always have been critical of behavior, choices, circumstances of others... and while I secretly and internally judged, I usually brushed off that judgment with, "they can do whatever they want, but I certainly would never do that." In fact, … Continue reading Self-Realizations 4: I’m a Judge Judy
Thanksgiving Melayu
"What's in a name? that which we call a rose By any other name would smell as sweet..." - Juliet, Romeo and Juliet And by the words of Shakespeare, so too does Thanksgiving, by any other name (or in this case, by any other country) would taste as delicious. Thanksgiving is my favorite … Continue reading Thanksgiving Melayu
Competition
Competition is a very interesting thing. I believe it is meant to make you better. You, meaning: you a person, you an organization, a team, a company. It pushes you further, to think creatively, to grow beyond where you are today. That is the positive side of competition. The competition I see among women bothers … Continue reading Competition